Happiness, fulfillment, success, support, joy, … even contentment cannot be accomplished by “looking a certain way”. These goal lines can only be danced upon when you are able to first identify successfully what helps YOU to feel that way. Life IMHO can be boiled down a few simple questions:

1. Where are you currently (physically, spiritually, financially, relationship wise, etc.)?

2. Where do you prefer your life were (physically, spiritually, financially, relationship wise, etc.)?

3. What are you willing to do to live more aligned with the preferred version?